Remember those childhood family functions where whispers about who married whom would spark more gossip than the actual wedding? Well, those hushed conversations have now found a louder, more unfiltered home on social media.
A recent post in a desi online Forum asked -
Why do Indian-origin women—whether born in the U.S., divorced, or on work visas—often choose to marry American men?
What followed was an avalanche of opinions, frustrations, and stereotypes, each revealing a layered truth about modern desi relationships.
Some argued that Indian women, once exposed to different cultural norms, feel freer to choose partners who treat them more equally, without the baggage of traditional expectations.
Others criticized Indian men for their emotional unavailability or lack of shared household responsibilities, while a few defended them, stating that many do contribute equally and support their partners.
There were also musings about convenience, immigration, and even the changing dynamics of dating apps, where preferences are more openly stated than ever before.
Yet, buried beneath the arguments and sarcasm was a deeper truth: everyone wants love, respect, and partnership, and no one should have to justify where they find it.
As we move ahead, perhaps it's time to prioritise love over labels, assumptions, and boundaries.
We should reminds us to acknowledge and celebrate all forms of love—especially those still considered taboo in parts of the subcontinent.
Because more than anything else, this world needs kindness and love. And those who find genuine love in this lifetime—regardless of nationality, regionality, caste, or gender—are truly fortunate. Love is love. Period.